I or We?

One way to get a marriage back on track is to put some focus on the two 'I's' within a marriage rather than the 'we'.

It might sound like the opposite advice you might be expecting but two unhappy people will find it hard to make the transition into a happy couple.

Don't Worry Be Happy!

If things aren't going right for you within or outside of your marriage, don’t wallow in your unhappiness. The first step to making positive changes in your life is to make every effort to build your confidence and independence.

Sometimes by putting the focus on yourself and making changes in your life that make you individually fulfilled and positive, it can take the pressure off your marriage.

Another positive benefit of concentrating on yourself is that a contented partner is always more attractive. By working on your own stresses and problems you can inject a positive feel into your marriage that kick starts other changes. 

So before you write off your marriage, have a think about what you can change in your own day to day life; it may enable you to start to get your love back.